I was reading astrologer Karen Christino’s blog about Jackie Kennedy Onassis, in which she talked about the path of least resistance in life. Instead of pursuing a career in journalism or publishing, Jackie married into the wealthy Kennedy family. It was expected of her to make a good marriage and she became a glamorous ornament for a US senator and future president. She was used to a comfortable lifestyle and wanted security. Of course, she didn’t see the obstacles and tragedies that unfolded down the road. It wasn’t quite so easy after all. She would have to be brave, stand tall and deal with it.
When we are young, most of us women have some kind of choice to make. Things have changed and today women have more freedom. But there is always the option of getting married and having a baby. Some women still want that. I got married young, because I thought I met the right fellow. Even though I wanted to work and become a successful artist or designer, I still wanted babies, sooner than later. I was a Cancer lady who loved babies, family, cooking and a happy home life. Like most women in the 1970s, I wanted it all.
The path of least resistance for me was, meeting a guy who was handsome, fun and a good provider. Not a drug user or a criminal. Clean cut Capricorn. He seemed like the right one. It was too easy, but how was I to know? I figured I was making a sensible choice. The path of least resistance. He came along just when I had decided not marry until I was at least thirty. The universe said, is that so? Well, here try this on for size. I changed direction so fast it would make your head spin. I’ve met many women who did the same thing. By the time I was thirty I was married with two beautiful children and a nice house, but wondering if I had made a mistake. Saturn was transiting into my 7th house and square to his natal place, go figure.
So, back to the main point. I wasn’t going to use my life as an example but there it is. I did not have good advice. Nobody stopped me. We don’t know if we are making the best choices. If we could only have enough sense to look ahead a little and see that the path of least resistance may be stifling or boring. If we could only have parents and teachers who point us in the right direction or give us the best advice. They too have made choices. And mistakes.
A great metaphor is the yellow brick road. It goes in several directions but you still end up at the Emerald City. Dorothy: Now which way do I go? Scarecrow: Pardon me. That way is a very nice way. Or it’s pleasant down that way too. (Pointing in both directions) Of course, some people do go both ways! –The Wizard of Oz.
Edgar Cayce said there is no right way or wrong way. When you make a choice, it will take you down a certain path. You will still learn things. If you choose differently, you will go in a different direction but nothing is ever wasted. In fact, in spite of my choice, after my marriage I began to have revelations, new ideas and an expanded interest in astrology. My husband didn’t go for this at all but there was no stopping it. It would have happened whether I was married or not.
Be sure to read Karen Christino’s blog! It’s a great article. The astrological background of Jackie Kennedy’s life is fascinating. Ctrl/clk to open the link. Jackie’s Path | Karen Christino
Celestial Almanac: Gemini New Moon June 6, Capricorn Full Moon June 22. Summer Solstice June 20.
Mars is here until June 9, and until then, take advantage of the high energy and motivation to get things done. Strike while the iron is still hot. Just remember to be patient with others and watch your temper. Some of you might be accident prone so be careful. With the Summer Solstice, the Sun shines on your family and home life. This should be a very pleasant period. Have a big family gathering. Communications, the arts and romance are favored.
When Mars arrives here, you will have a burst of energy same as Aries, but in a decidedly different fashion. You take your time about doing things. You aren’t in a big hurry like Aries. This sign is the worst procrastinator of all but usually you’ve got your reasons. You plan carefully and are more focused and determined. Building projects, real estate, gardening, landscaping and finances are favored. You could invest in income producing property now.
Lots going on here this month! The Sun, Mercury and Venus are here during the first half of the month. This energy favors artists, writers, performers, teachers and public speakers. Jupiter is camping out here for the next year and this is important as well as fortunate. Jupiter is weak in this sign but it still has definite benefits. Opportunities, new relationships and other lucky breaks are coming up for you. Just take one day at a time and be optimistic.
The Sun, Mercury, Venus arrive in the middle of the month. The Summer Solstice is June 20, and now Cancer folks will be in the spotlight. This is the best time year for you. You get special attention. If you need money, it will come. Your health should be good. Because of Mercury and Venus, communications, the arts and romantic relationships are favored. People are calling you and you will be invited out a lot. Go shopping and do nice things for yourself.
Mars is changing signs. While still in Aries, travel, education and research are favored. After June 9, Mars in Taurus is good for career matters. You can promote yourself, advertise, meet new clients or look for a better position. You may be more aggressive and ambitious. You might run into conflicts, but you can work them out. It is a different energy than when Jupiter was here. You don’t rely on luck, but are more deliberate and determined in your approach to things.
Jupiter arrives in Gemini, your career house. The New Moon on June 6 may be important. There will be growth and opportunities in the coming year. Leave no stone unturned and cultivate all professional relationships. This is an important transit if you are trying to make a change or move up in the world. Even if you are not, there might still be an opportunity coming to you. Mars in Taurus favors travel, education and expanding your world. Plan a vacation.
The Summer Solstice and other planets in Cancer will favor your career and professional life. Communications, social media, education, children’s activities, the arts and entertainment are favored. You might discover a flair for interior decorating or design. Libra has very good taste. There is an element of glamour. Women may be helpful to you, or you will be working more with women in general. Jupiter in Gemini favors travel and adventure, so plan a trip.
When Jupiter changes signs, there is involvement with wills, legacies, inheritance and investments, especially with partners. Interests dear to Scorpio’s heart. Jupiter brings expansion and opportunity. Maybe you have an inheritance coming to you. Mars in Taurus after June 9 brings a burst of energy to your marriage or business partnership. Sparks fly. If you are having problems they will come out now and you have to deal with them. Mars guarantees that this will happen.
Jupiter in Gemini can be exciting. This is your marriage house. You can rekindle the spark, if already attached, go on romantic dates or a weekend away from the kids. Some people set aside one day a week to go on a date. If the situation is different, and change is in the wind, the grass is greener just beyond the hill. Single folks may meet someone different and exciting, maybe a foreigner, and begin a new relationship. You will expand your life experience.
The Summer Solstice, plus Mercury and Venus favor relationships. This is a romantic time for you especially during the second half of the month. There may be a new sweetheart coming down the pike. Communications and social activities are favored. Like Sagittarius, do something with your partner to rekindle the spark. The Full Moon on June 22 may be exciting. Mars in Taurus after June 9 favors social life. Get out and have some fun!
Pluto Rx in your sign is operating pretty much below the surface. You may feel a change but can’t quite explain it. No worries, though. Mars in Taurus favors activities at home, especially work, cleaning and renovating. Jupiter in Gemini brings good times, new friends and associations, such as in games and sports. For some of you, this is a very good transit for starting a family and the conception of children. Babies are coming, and possibly grandchildren.
The Summer Solstice and the planets moving into Cancer are very nice for your social life and children’s activities. Romance and artistic pursuits will flower. Play music, draw or paint in your sketchbook, or write a romantic poem. Enjoy some recreation. Go on a hike or sailing or to the beach. It is time to take a break from work, you deserve it. Jupiter in Gemini and the New Moon on June 6 will be fortunate for moving or house hunting. Make a fresh start.
